lǐ shàng wǎng lái

礼尚往来

基本信息
词 语: LSWL
简 拼: ㄌ一ˇ ㄕㄤˋ ㄨㄤˇ ㄌㄞˊ
词 性: 动词
英 文: courtesy demands reciprocity; deal with sb. as he deals with you; pay sb. back in his own coin
词语示例

礼尚往来,往而不来,非礼也;来而不往,亦非礼也。——《礼记·曲礼上》

基本解释

◎ 礼尚往来 lǐ shàng wǎng lái [courtesy demands reciprocity; deal with sb. as he deals with you; pay sb. back in his own coin] 在礼节上注重有来有往,借指用对方对待自己的态度和方式去对待对方 礼尚往来,往而不来,非礼也;来而不往,亦非礼也。——《礼记·曲礼上》

详细解释

谓礼以相互往来为贵。《礼记·曲礼上》:“太上贵德,其次务施报,礼尚往来,往而不来,非礼也;来而不往,亦非礼也。” 宋 计有功 《唐诗纪事·李昂》:“ 权(李权 )拱而前曰:‘夫礼尚往来,来而不往,非礼也。鄙文不臧,既得而闻矣,而执事昔有雅什,尝闻於道路,愚将切磋可乎?’”